Wednesday, April 09, 2008

..DEAD SCARLETT..

I wished to write this when the whole media hype would vanish form the Scarlett Keeling's rape and death case.
The police, the government and the media have done their share (as they say) and now there are many many more just like this one going to happen.

It is stupid to categorise people and judge crime.It could be anyone, a hippy, a goth or any damn person on this planet. Justice should be the same for all. There are people who live diferently cause they refuse to conform themselves to the society's norms or for various other reasons but this doesnt give us the fellow people, the government and the police to judge them and treat them with cruelty.Yes fiona leaving scarlett in a nation compeltely alien to scarlett is wrong but whether shes had 5 or 100 husbands that doesnt matter.

It all belongs to the root of it that no matter what, whetehr democracy or kingdom rule, for women its always the latter because we can never live the way we want.(And i have freedom as one of the topics in philosophy..freedom to do what we want?)... what a pitty!
I mean a man's identity is never questioned when it comes to matters like these but in a snap a women's identity is questioned and shes scrutinized from each and every angle..
We all have the right to live the way we want. This all belongs to the ancient times when mughals use to rape the Indian women while they were ruling and the women were made to put a red tikka n wear mangalsutra by their family for the sole purpose that since a woman is married she wont be attacked. But today no woman is spared whether she arrives totally inebriated to a bar at 3 in the morning or whether shes fully clad and is just walking on a street even in the afternoon, shes picked up by the hungry men who loose there humanity for their mere lusty satisfaction.

According to the "people", this is a case of a foolish mother who now regrets her deeds, whos sleepless nights are filled with the phrase "if only" constantly ringing in her head. But it could be anyone one of us women? anyones wife,daughter?
Its very easy for others to blame women who expose cause they are inticing the men..
Whether we women intice men or not, whether we are naked or fully clothed we are vulnerable each and evry moment even if we choose not be. What about a 2 month old small baby girl whos father rapes her.Will you blame her for lying naked on the bed when she doesnt even know what world she has stepped in when shes only 2 months and will know years later what a bastard her father is or will you question the fuked up world we are in?

Everyone has made allegations against Fiona and Scarlett being drug addicts. The question here:if it isnt for these politicians then how the hell are drugs even available?
If we observe , "POLI" both police n politicians make each other.The police makes politicians by elcting them and the politicians make the police by loading them with money.Its a vicious cycle and all this has been going on for ages.
This is just ONE RAPE CASE!!
This case is just one among the infinite cases.

Instead of blaming and pointing fingers and forming our narrow opinions why don't we all do something to change our selves.Society expects a girl to be docile and well mannerd and a boy to be aggressive and the result is these cases.

My request to evreyone is that its not easy to face something drastic when something goes wrong with ourselves but when its others then its all a matter of judgement and opinions. Society's so called "norms" and "rules" are created by us. For the betterment of this world and us its high timewe stop succumbing to them.

[This is to all the men and women who who have accused Fiona of being a bad mother and Scarlet of being an estrayed teenager]

WOMEN: It's a shame on us for how you can even think fo blaming Fiona (imagine if it was your daughter even though she doesnt do drugs and does not indulge in sex)

MEN: Imagine being in a woman's shoes for one day,just one and you'll know that life from a man's living is not even an inch closer to a woman's living.

THIS IS TO ALL THE WOMEN WHO CONSTANTLY STRUGGLE EACH DAY AND STILL LIVE WITH A SMILE ON THEIR FACE!! AND TO YOUNG SCARLETT FOR SHE WAS TOO YOUNG TO REALISE!!
PEACE!

1 comment:

wayne said...

decently written...full o home truths...to the point...ppl jus blend in wit the mass hysteria...most with out thinking....time v reflect before v act...